Wednesday, November 10, 2004
Who Does She Think She Is?

I decided yesterday I'm cutting my mother out of my life...for good.  I came home from work sick (another story.)  My dad received the letter from her lawyer for the divorce.  They've been separated for 6+ years.  She is suing him for alimony, his pension, the house, court costs and her lawyer fees.  WHAT? 

You have got to be kidding me!  I am so pissed off at her right now.  We all make about the same.  She might make $100 less than I do.  How come I can afford $800/month rent, electric, cable, phone, etc and she can't affor $300/month rent.  That's right.  Her rent is $500 less than mine.  She doesn't have a child.  All her money is HERS. 

My dad makes a little less than I do as well.  He gives me about 75% of what he makes towards bills and things.  With the money he gives me, I am able to do more things for DJ.  I want to start the Feingold Diet in January.  It's $70+food.  His special vitamins are $50/month.  That money pays for karate, the gym membership I'm getting for him, soccer when he starts.  Now, instead, my greedy mother wants it.

She does not contribute a DIME to DJ's care.  Nor do I want her to.  Now, she's going to take from him.  This just really pisses me off.  Not to mention it's about one month before Christmas and now my dad has to pay for a lawyer to help him fight this.  This effects me because money is now going to be tight and I don't know much I can give towards Christmas.  This REALLY SUCKS. 

Her problem is she has many expenditures.  She goes out every weekend and she gets her hair done every month.  The hair alone is about $60. 

It all came out yesterday because she was supposed to drop off some stuff for PIC last night.  I called her to tell her not to bother and she is no longer welcome in my house.  I've had it.

She had the nerve to tell me over and over again this has nothing to do with me.  Then she emails me the same thing.  I'm in the midst of emailing her back now to tell her exactly what I think of her greedy ass. 

I told her to get another job!  Noone is put on this earth to support her!!!!  This is not the '50s and she is NOT June Cleaver.  You want to be high maintenance, work for it.  No, instead she wants me to freaking support...which is what it's all going to boil down to.  How DARE she jeopardize my son's future!!!  Shame on her!!!!

by lilhoneypa at 08:55 am

Wendy
November 10, 2004   04:08 PM PST
 
LOL, I'm staying put now:)
Dawn (webmiztris)
November 10, 2004   11:20 AM PST
 
lilhoney, you're such a nomad!!

;-)

Hope things look up soon...


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