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Monday, December 06, 2004
Pulling One Over Mommy's Eyes Now that DJ has started 1st grade, he gets more homework (naturally). His teacher started to give him written tests as well. He's given a list of spelling words each week to memorize and usually gets tested on Friday. DJ is REALLY good at trying to figure out. He's excellent with consonants, not so good with vowels. As the weeks progress, so do the level of words given. His teacher and I talked. Did I mention DJ is in an Asperger support classroom? He's in the class with 6 other children (K-2), and all lesson plans are individualized according to the student and his IEP. DJ was having a bit of a hard time (besides the fact he doesn't want to take the extra 5-10 minutes a night to go over them with me.) He passes each week but I know he can do SO much better. When his teacher and I talked, we decided to start testing him on Mondays. This way he has Monday through Monday to study. I came up with an even better idea. I can't believe I'm even entertaining the thought! DJ's biggest obsession is electronics. For those of you understaning Aspie kids, they're big on obsessions (complete and total obsession). Electronics including television, VCR, DVD, computer, video games, etc, etc. This consumes his life. When is the next time he can watch TV, or play the gamecube? These are the all important questions in our house. He wants to do absolutely NOTHING else. Anyway, that's another problem, lol. He loves to watch home movies. I decided we would take his spelling words, go over them one night, and I would videotape it. This way he can watch himself (he's so narcisstic!) over and over and over again. My darling little boy memorized EVERY SINGLE LINE from Shrek 2 after watching it 2 times. Spelling words should be a breeze! Note: Aspies are very visual as well. As it stands in the house right now, he is not allowed to watch tv on school nights but is allowed to play video games. I know that makes no sense to some people. His teacher and I talked it out and we realized the video games are showing DJ major problem solving skills. He needs help in this area. So as of now, he's allowed 1 hour per night on the video games. Since we're doing this spelling thing, I'll let him watch the tape 1/2 hour a night. He'll think he's pulling something over on me, trust me! Via Google Search While I do appreciate all the hits to my site, I should let you know you are not going to find "sex with sister-in-law" here. I don't have a sister-in-law. I don't even have a brother. Come to think of it, I'm an only child. Nor are you going to find "my mommy nude." Ewwwww, who actually does this? I'm not even talking to my "mommy", so you're shit out of luck, pal. I really don't want to sound ungrateful, but move on, PERVERTS! Sunday, December 05, 2004
Painted the Town Red!!! During dinner tonight, Pops turns to me and says, "You and PIC should go out tonight. I'll stay home with DJ." Wow! You don't have to tell me twice. Called PIC. Arranged to meet out front around 8ish. Then I showered, got dressed, put on a little lip gloss, grabbed my coat and keys and raced out front for our rendezvous. Headed over to the local supermarket to do our weekly shopping. That's right, folks. Lock your doors. Close your blinds. Keep your men in the house. We are some WILD chicks. Friday, December 03, 2004
Why? Most days, I forget DJ has Asperger's. I don't know if it's because I've just dealt with it for so long. Maybe it's because it's just the two of us. Or it could be because I just love him so much that I will myself to ignore the little inconsistencies and the uniqueness. Some days it's just so hard. Today is one of those days. I can't make it better. I can't make it go away. I can't overlook it. I can't pretend it doesn't exist. It's one of those days I feel helpless. I'm his mother, why can't I help him???? It started with a spider. A simple spider combined with bloodcurdling screams, over and over and over. He wouldn't stop screaming. The spider didn't touch him. I killed the spider. The screams continued. Non-stop. Why? He couldn't stop screaming long enough to tell me why he was screaming. Screaming combined with him running through out home with stinkies hanging out of his butt. Then the screams turned to whimpers and I hushed all his fears away. Then started up again in full force when I tried to maneuver him in the shower to clean his butt. I couldn't take it anymore. He had to go in his room. Then he just continuously screamed about that. I'm unfair. I'm evil. I'm mean. Now he is sleeping peacefully, looking like the sweetest cuddliest little boy you'd ever imagine. I'm left upset and drained. Searching the internet for more news. more interventions. I'm starting to second guess myself. Did I do the right thing? Did I miss an all important step? Sometimes, being a mommy really sucks. Let There Be Light! Last night, I was sitting in my nicely lit kitchen doing homework. All thanks to Mr. Big. I was doing some homework and chatting with PIC on the phone. POP!!!! I start looking around. What was that? Then I look up. Cracked glass from one end of my light fixture to the other. I started thinking, do I REALLY want to deal with this tonight. But then I start worrying about DJ in the morning. What happens if it shatters? I decided not to take the risk, of course. I gave management a call to send someone out to take the glass down for me. Remember, the short thing? I was really hopin they'd send out Cute Guy to take the glass down for me. Evidently he wasn't the one on call last night. Instead his friend showed up. I really did feel bad that I made him come over here at 10:00 at night. I felt even worse when he mentioned he just moved into one of the townhouses (from an apartment) with his wife and kids. We started debating with each other about when the light was going to get fixed, either last night or today. I wanted him to get back to his family and do it during normal work hours. I lost. Then again, I won. He didn't have the light fixture I had. They had to wait until today to put it together. Thursday, December 02, 2004
Sex Type Quiz Of course, this is from Dawn. Since she dared me... Copy this whole list into your journal / blog. 2. Bold OR capitalize the things that are true about you. 3. Whatever you don't bold is false. PART I 01. I've had sex in the past five minutes. PART II 1. I have, either currently or in the past, gone over a year without sex. Now I dare YOU to post it on your blog! Wednesday, December 01, 2004
Silly Fool Men really do amaze me. Mr Big came over tonight to fix my lightbulb. You need 6ft men to come over and do those sort of things when you're only 4'11. But, since when did "Can you come change my lightbulb" translate to "Let's get hot and naked and do it on the sink?" I did get my lightbulb fixed. He went home. I broke up with you for a reason. No, not the sex. The sex was banging. But you, you don't know the meaning of the word monogomous. But evidently you know the meaning of the word lightbulb. Bye bye. December 2004 DJ...Speechless posted 12/31/2004 @ 03:50am Rants and Raves posted 12/29/2004 @ 12:49pm Merry Christmas! posted 12/26/2004 @ 02:46pm No! No! No! posted 12/23/2004 @ 08:47am Holiday Bonus posted 12/22/2004 @ 10:35pm Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince posted 12/21/2004 @ 08:15am Did I Do That? posted 12/21/2004 @ 06:12am School Daze posted 12/17/2004 @ 08:05pm Super NuThera posted 12/17/2004 @ 10:20am GOOD NEWS!!! posted 12/16/2004 @ 11:15pm What is Dubya Doing? posted 12/16/2004 @ 06:32am Ms. Popularity posted 12/15/2004 @ 10:01pm Naughty, But Lots of Fun! posted 12/15/2004 @ 05:32pm What the....? posted 12/14/2004 @ 11:08pm Holiday Letter to Family and Friends posted 12/14/2005 @ 06:30am 12 and 1 posted 12/13/2004 @ 12:33am The Game posted 12/13/2004 @ 12:03am Interactive Blogging posted 12/09/2004 @ 09:19pm Pulling One Over Mommy's Eyes posted 12/06/2004 @ 11:32pm Via Google Search posted 12/06/2004 @ 03:20pm Painted the Town Red!!! posted 12/05/2004 @ 03:15am Why? posted 12/03/2004 @ 07:40pm Let There Be Light! posted 12/03/2004 @ 04:54pm Sex Type Quiz posted 12/02/2004 @ 06:12am Silly Fool posted 12/01/2004 @ 08:51pm by lilhoneypa at 12:20 am
Tuesday, November 30, 2004
November 2004 Archives How Was Your Day? Posted 11/26/2004 at 12:30 am I Am Thankful For... Posted 11/24/2004 at 11:49 pm Do I Really Feel Like Doing This? Posted 11/24/2004 at 07:16 pm It's The Little Things Posted 11/23/2004 at 10:11 pm Summary Of IDEA Changes In Plain Language Posted 11/23/2004 at 03:41 pm Giving Thanks Week - My Son Posted 11/22/2004 at 11:35 pm Tragic Day Posted 11/21/2004 at 01:12 am I Need To Go To Bed Earlier Posted 11/18/2004 at 03:33 pm Diary Awards Posted 11/18/2004 at 08:42 am Irony Should Be My Middle Name Posted 11/17/2004 at 08:59 pm How Many People Does It Take... Posted 11/16/2004 at 02:23 pm TGIM! Posted 11/15/2004 at 09:16 am I Laughed Myself Silly, Now It's Your Turn Posted 11/12/2004 at 11:31 pm Jingle Bell Rock THIS! Posted 11/12/2004 at 11:02 pm Even Busier Weekend Posted 11/12/2004 at 08:58 pm Busy Week... Posted 11/11/2004 at 12:04 pm United States of Canada Posted 11/11/2004 at 09:29 am Find Another Profession!!!!! Posted 11/10/2004 at 09:02 pm Are You Feeling Secure? Posted 11/10/2004 at 04:10 pm Who Does She Think She Is? Posted 11/10/2004 at 08:55 am HotJobs Posted 11/08/2004 at 01:22 pm Crazy Weekends Posted 11/07/2004 at 10:35 am What Month Is This? Posted 11/05/2004 at 11:33 pm My Words Through Someone Else Posted 11/03/2004 at 04:56 pm Kerry Concedes Defeat Posted 11/03/2004 at 11:47 am Fox News Predicts Ohio for Bush Posted 11/03/2004 at 06:08 am Phew....Swing Pennsylvania Swing Posted 11/02/2004 at 11:09 pm Swing the Vote!!!! Posted 11/02/2004 at 12:56 pm Election Day Posted 11/02/2004 at 06:32 am Freakin Thieves Posted 11/01/2004 at 02:51 pm 7 and 0, Baby! Posted 11/01/2004 at 11?29 am by lilhoneypa at 11:34 pm
Friday, November 26, 2004
How Was Your Day? Hmmm, a fun day had by all *insert heavy sarcasm here. My little Pops really really really ticks me off. I love him dearly. But he still pisses me off. He does absolutely nothing around the house. Seriously, nothing. He's worse than DJ. I understand he's unhappy. He's been depressed ever since he and my mother split up (6+ years ago.) He doesn't take care of himself. He doesn't take care of anything around here and my biggest complaint...he doesn't shower. He spent the whole day (morning, noon and night) at the kitchen table. Subtract the 1 hour he took to go to the store and the 15 minutes he was in the shower-finally. Did not lift one little finger to do anything! I'm really fed up. His bathroom was DISGUSTING. I don't know the last time he cleaned or if he ever cleaned it. I spent 1 hour cleaning his bathroom. Yes, one hour cleaning a BATHROOM. I didn't even touch the tub or the sink. I'm just talking about the toilet area. How gross. This is a day on a weekend (or a day when Pops is off) at my house. BTW, he sleeps at my kitchen table. I guess I can understand it if you haven't washed your sheets for months. But, hey, they don't come clean on their own. You actually need to take them OFF the bed and throw them in the washer. Trust me, the sheets will appreciate it. I'll greatly appreciate. He wakes up for a bit and wants to watch TV. DJ is playing video games on the TV. He'll tell DJ to go play on the computer or something. So DJ will go in the bedroom he was supposed to share with Pops. But then after about 1/2 hour, Pops decides he wants to lay down on the bed. He kicks DJ out the room because he makes too much noise. DJ comes back in and plays video games or something else. Then Pops wakes up and bitches because he can't watch TV because DJ monopolizes the television. I really think Pops contributes greatly to how DJ acts. During the week when it's just us, he is much more calmer. On days when Pops is off or the weekends, he's just out of control. I really wish I never asked him to move in. Though before I asked him to move in, I was over his house every weekend because he needed company. I was getting nothing done here at my apartment. Seriously, it's just a vicious circle. When you try to tell Pops something, he gets pissed. The only thing he does around here is puts the dishes in the dishwasher after dinner on the weekends. I get to turn it on. I do trash, cooking, cleaning, vacuuming, picking up, etc, etc. I had to do all this today. I'm tired. I'm sore. I'm not doing this anymore. This cooking crap. I had to call PIC up to come over and do the stuffing and mashed potatoes so I could actually take a shower. I just want to run away from home!
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